It seems like it has been defined by so many words.

Sacrifice. Compromise. Peace. Being seen.

I've noticed that my definition has changed over the years, due to building up more life experiences. It has made me look beyond romantic experiences(outside) to the people around me (inside).

Love is when your friends call you out for tolerating less than what you deserve while supporting you. 

Love is when your mother knows when to make you your favourite meal when you're sad without you asking her. 

Love is when your father wants you to go to the store with him to have a conversation.

Love is when your dog is always happy to see you and be around you...

Self-love seems to be the most important. I've seen so many quotes and other media about how the relationship you have with yourself can impact the way others act toward you, and it made so much sense.

I also learned that I'm worthy of all the fun activities I delay to have more people around me. I can do those things on my own and be content in what I have to offer.

Love is also cautionary. Love might be disguised as obsession and one-way streets, so be careful who you fall for.

There's a lot of pressure to perform on a day like Valentine's Day. Couples can easily break up when one partner forgets a present or delivers below expectations. Imagine 24 fresh red roses and getting one plastic one with a chocolate slab. ouch.

I took time to reflect on the content I wanted to publish up until this holiday, and I realised that I needed to be multi-dimensional if I wanted to resonate with my readers and what I've come to know about love. Not everyone will smell roses and have first kisses anytime soon, so why not highlight the connections that can help us feel fulfilled and loved regardless, like the unconditional love of God(if you believe in him, of course) and your mom.

This week will be full of love stories from mothers to friends. subscribe and follow me on my social media for updates.