The wise virgins (from the Biblical parable) were not considered wise just because they carried extra oil for their lamps. They were called wise because when a demand was made on that extra, they were firm (albeit kind) in their refusal. People say that good people finish last usually because they confuse being good with being naive and permissive. Verily I say unto you, No one is more loved than a person without boundaries. But it’s a weak and low quality version of love. You’re everyone’s favo