Friendship ~ noun, A relationship of mutual affection between people.
Humans are social creatures. We’re meant to coexist and be in relationships with others.
Somehow it’s gotten harder to be in relationship, to find mutual affection with others. Many of us are closed off - feelings and hearts guarded tight for fear of rejection. Or perhaps because of past pain or a fear of heartbreak. No matter the reason for our guardedness, affection nor relationship can occur without emotional vulnerability.
It is being open enough to share pieces of yourself with others. It sounds simple but in practice can be hard.
A few things I'm learning so far:
- Curiosity is critical. It allows you to be open to learn more about other people
- Being in tune with your emotions and aware of your habits and traits makes it easier to be your authentic self without having to mold yourself for others.
- Get uncomfortable - trying something new helps get you out of your comfort zone and into new places with new people and experiences.
At the end of the day, true and meaningful connection takes work and requires each person to be open to new ideas, new experiences, and different perspectives.
Stay curious. Stay connected.
From a Curious Bloomer