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Choose Yourself: The Power of Self-Love

Puplished 18th April 2025

Nontobeko Gumede

Nontobeko Gumede

@Smartiestar

Never think you're not worthy just because people fail to stay with you. Never think you're ugly simply because someone can't see your beauty. The truth is, your value is not determined by the opinions of others–it is inherent, unchangeable and uniquely yours.
In life, it's all too easy to focus on what others think of us or how they feel about us.

We care deeply about whether they see us, approve of us or acknowledge our existence. But here's the reality: these opinions contribute very little to our happiness or our growth. They are fleeting, superficial and often based on misunderstandings.

Some people watch your life not out of friendship or kindness but simply to catch you when you falter. They monitor your mistakes, eager to point them out. But their judgment says far more about them than it does about you.

Never ever think less of yourself just because someone couldn't show up for you.
The most important relationship you'll ever have is the one with yourself. When you choose yourself, prioritize your happiness and love who you are, you unlock a power that is unshakable. You begin to see that your worth isn't tied to anyone else's validation. It's tied to the way you treat yourself and care you show to your own heart.


Life is full of challenges, people who misunderstand us and moments that test our strength. But none of these define you. What defines you is how you rise above, how you keep going and how you choose yourself, every single day.


So here's a reminder: you are worthy. You are beautiful even if others fail to recognize it. You deserve to love yourself fully without hesitation or guilt. Choose you, always.


Self-loveSelf-developmentSelf-careLifeMindfulness
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